A year ago, I finalized my "30 before 30" list and created a page for it on this lil' blog. I also proclaimed "I will be crossing off items as I finish them" and "assessing my progress every six months." And just like June, I haven't really done the first part of that, but the six month check-ins are there for a reason, so let's get to it.
As the daughter of two lawyers I feel obliged to start with the following disclaimer: my deadline for completing this list is December 31, 2015. Technically this three months and seven days after my 30th birthday, but who's counting anyway?
Blog
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Cooking
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8. Try 5 new/unusual foods - (2/5 - chipotle chiles in adobo sauce 10/2014, dragon fruit 12/2014 ) This one is actually harder than I thought it would be; I guess I know what I like and stick to it. Neither of the foods above is terribly exotic, but I had a hard time finding the chipotle chiles (and had no idea they came in the sauce) and I got pick the dragon fruit right off of the cactus, which I think should count for something.
9. New recipe 1X/week* - (33/52 - 2014) I am really satisfied with this number! And very glad that I have started blogging about them every month, because there were definitely not that many blue circles on my wall calendar.
Fitness
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14. Yoga 1X/week - (33/52 - 2014) While there is certainly some room for improvement here, yoga at least every other week is much better than than little or no yoga at all.
Personal Growth
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19. Read 12 non-fiction books - (5/12 - Consumer's Guide to Effective Environmental Choices, Visual Display of Quantitative Information, Bikenomics, Blink, At Home) I feel like there's another one to add to the list, but I can't place it at the moment. Oh well.
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Relationships
21. Plan wedding - (I now have 3 bridal magazines in my possession, and I joined Pinterest 11/2014) A year later, this goal and the next goal seem out of order. Read more below.
22. Get married - (Engaged 8/29/2014; Fiance visa paperwork filed 10/2014) Yes, I am trying to just casually slip in the fact that Keizo proposed in August, and I have never posted about it on any form of social media. I tried to let everyone closest to me know over the phone, and I hope no one feels left out if you are just learning about it here. Maybe its selfish to keep such exciting news a relative secret, but honestly I find it much harder to be engaged to someone 8,000 miles away than just date him (even if it's been headed this direction for a while). There are so many questions we don't have the answers to yet: 'When will he be here?' 'When/where will you get married?' 'What will he do here?' and believe me, I wish I knew. The hardest is 'What do his parents think?' because I honestly have no earthly idea, and really worry about how often Keizo will be able to see them after he moves here.
Here's the gist of it looking ahead: Last we heard, the application for Keizo's fiance visa was received by the processing center in Texas. Once it is reviewed, they will forward it to the US Embassy in Tokyo, where he will go for an interview and have a medical exam. After he gets his visa and arrives in the US, we will have 90 days to get married. After we're wed, he will apply for a "change in status" i.e. a green card so he can get a job. The current train of thought is a small civil ceremony with my immediate family shortly after he arrives, and a bigger reception at a location yet to be determined down the road.
24. Write letter 1X/week* - (37/52 - 2014) I confess to beefing up this total with the 16 Christmas cards I wrote in December, but again this is something that I do manage to do slightly more often than I make note of on the calendar.
Travel
Blergh! I hate that I don't have anything to show in this category yet. There was definitely not as much travel as in 2013 for several reasons, but now that I have a job squared away it will be a bit easier to budget funds and paid time off for some adventures in 2015.
*Monthly Goals (Two-fers)
Exercise for at least 30 minutes 5X/week (162/260 - 62%) I set this goal thinking that 30 minutes was very achievable and I would work out more often. I logged 192 workouts in 2013, so my logic didn't exactly hold up. In my defense, I couldn't find my calendar among the moving boxes to record any workouts for most of August or September...
Cook a new recipe 1X/week (33/52 - 63%) I am still rather impressed with myself for this one! I wonder if this rate will increase when Keizo is living here; we will be consuming more food, and perhaps cooking more often thus more opportunities to try out new things?
Blog 1X/week (29/52 - 55%) This one turned out better than I thought it would. I will probably never have another 2011 with 93 posts (seriously, wow) but I would like to be in the 40's next year.
Write a letter 1X/week (37/52 - 71%) Including 16 Christmas cards in this count feels even more like cheating when I see the percentages, but they were all handwritten with personal messages. I think this year I will amend this goal to "Write a letter or call a faraway friend 1X/week."
Do something interesting/new 1X/week (5/52 -10%) I will be the first to admit that I have taken to staying in on these dark, cold evenings but I know I did more than the five "interesting" things I happened to record in 2014. Especially living in a new city with a ton of free things to do, I have no excuse not to dramatically improve this number in 2015. I think making a DC bucket list might help, but I also need to come up with a better tracking system.
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